Before preparing to improve the world, first look around your own home three times.

It is a Chinese Proverb...a recent fan of such proverbs,loads of deep wisdom in them.

We had a good walk on the Helix Bridge last weekend.Apek aiskrim very clever to park his cart at a very stratergic place,dah penat2 jalan makan aiskrim so the kids had that.

It was a good long walk....i said long because I jarang go for one and this one sweat me out a lot.Haven't upload the pics here because very snail mode lah from hp camera to pc.Insya'Allah someday.

Someone asked a favour yesterday. I agree or not? I do not know.Prolly because of my ego that made me delay to reply. Because it sounded more of an order and I am supposed  to obligate it just because.Ego kan....tengok lah besok2 macam mana.Ni dah simmer sikit tapi bila terima msg semalam rasa hot jugak.

"Can you get Hassan to * ?" camnilah gayanya.

Ermmm....for now macam no.If this question comes from my mom,mil,husband or brother...I will without a second thought.Even if my boys were to ask this way,I'll suggest them to rephrase it.

This is what I think a practice of adab that I do take seriously especially if it comes from someone who is not family and hardly meet.

And I really think this is quite bold of the person....because this is not the first time such...err..request asked in such a manner.Before, she expected my sons to take care of her precious and regarded my sons as her bodyguards (declared my sons' 'job post' to me and expected me to agree auto..nope,sorry).My sons were questioned without my knowledge on why they did not do their job of taking care of her...err...precious.I encourage them to give help when there are friends in need when they can afford to but sometimes they were not there to do it....

I gave my thoughts,just like any other moms would defend their child... because they are not muhrims to precious.And a sheepish reply followed...done.

Another request came....old habits die slow lah kan.My habit pulak makin gitu macam makin senyapkan diri.

Sigh...actually I could grant her that favour tak banyak trouble pun but it did get to me lah in the way that I was being asked or rather ordered about.

But then...there is the ego in me.Tsk...

Oh well,eitherways,it can be done.Insya'Allah.Oklah telan jer lah babe...

Have a great midweek :)